Buying sex toys with your lover can be super exciting if you make it into an experience for both of you.
If you’re reading this article I would assume that you are over the initial shock of learning that your gal wants to give sex toys a try and understand that a sex toy—even that big 8 inch dildo—is in no way a replacement for you. Choosing a sex toy with your lady should be free of judgment and met with an open mind. Remember; this special shopping excursion is an extension of your sex life and should be treated with the same eagerness, pleasure and excitement as everything else you do sexually.
Selecting a toy that you can both enjoy may take a little compromise, so sit down and talk about what types of toys peak your arousal. Are you looking for something geared towards mutual stimulation like a vibrating cock ring? Or maybe this is more for her and you’d like a vibrator or a dildo that you can use on her or just sit back and enjoy the show while she goes to town? Once you have a general idea, it’s time to shop!
Shopping for a sex toy can be done two ways: online or in store and both have their advantages. Online shopping, allows you to browse products at your leisure and in the privacy of your own home (even naked if you wish!) which is definitely a plus for the shy.
Also, a shop can only hold so much, whereas an online store can carry an endless supply, ensuring something to literally tickle anyone’s fancy. In store, you may luck out and have the pleasure of a very knowledgeable and helpful sales person who can give you the low down on the various gadgets, but again, if either of you is remotely shy, you may not be comfortable asking.
Luckily the product pictures and descriptions available on the Web are so detailed that there’s very little need to leave the house to enjoy a gratifying and successful shopping excursion and besides, sites like Coco de Mer Erotic Boutique, Njoy Toys and Love Honey have customer service people that are reachable by phone or email to answer any questions you may have about sex toys.
Taking a trip to the local sex shop can be great too—almost like foreplay if approached right! There you can peruse the aisles together and enjoy the hands-on approach to choosing a toy. Most stores have a box of batteries in all sizes ready to go so that you can turn the toys on and get a feel for how they work—that in itself can be quite arousing.
There are also various samples that you can enjoy first hand; discreetly rubbing a dollop of warming lotion on her skin (even nipple if no ones looking!) or having her sample some Body Butter off of your neck (I doubt you’ll have the privacy to go much lower!) Also, shopping in store is great if you’re looking for the instant gratification of taking your precious new purchase home to try right away—though—the tease of the wait can be quite worth it as you go to bed dreaming of what’s to come; Ooh! Only three to seven more sleeps till the UPS guy comes!!
So, whether it’s in store or online; either method can prove hot and beneficial if you go in with the right attitude and ready for a good time.
Hey, I just remembered another perk of online shopping as opposed to in store; being able to take advantage of how incredibly aroused browsing all those toys will surely make you and having some hot sex right then and there by the sweet glow of your computer screen at anytime of the day or night.
Talk about happy shopping!
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