As a man, the thought of a bunch of flowers sent by a lover to your workplace no doubt fills you with horror and dread. Its a sure-fire way to set yourself up for shame, humiliation, teasing and ridicule by your co-workers.
BUT…the exact OPPOSITE is true for women.
Which is why you sending a gift to their workplace is a quick way to make her feel very special.
Here’s why.
Women love people to know that they have a man in their life. You may never see or speak to her fellow employees, but trust me, she wants them to know about you. She wants them to know that a man has snapped her up, that she has someone to go home and cuddle with, and talk to, and to take her out, and hold hands with and…you get the picture. It validates her and makes her feel loved and cherished.
So, when ordering flowers think like a girl, keep these tips in mind:
1. Send The Flowers Somewhere Public
Like her workplace. Don’t send them to her house where she’ll have to open them alone. That way she will get to stare at them all day, and dream of you. She’ll also have people ask her who they are from, giving her the opportunity to say wonderful things about you!
2. Make The Bouquet Big and bold
Notice I said big not necessarily expensive. Just make sure everyone in the office is going to see them coming through the front door and hand delivered to the lucky lady.
3. Personalise, Personalise, Personalise!
Don’t forget to add a little note with the flowers. Most florists will offer this. It doesn’t have to be long, a couple of lines will do. Just make sure you mean what you say and it is ORIGINAL. Don’t go with boring lines you use over and over. Make it relevant to the situation.
Remember these little tips when your next need to send flowers. Both you and her will get so much more out of it.
