You know those ‘drop in your business card to win a bottle of wine’ boxes you see in bars and restaurants?
We’re going to make one that you are you’re partner will actually be gagging to fill to the brim.
The idea is simple. Throughout the week, you and your boyfriend or girlfriend write down something naughty you would like your partner to do to you, and place it in the box.
On the weekend, you open the box and pick one out. If it’s something you wrote, you’re in luck because your lover has to indulge you. If it’s something they wrote, then you oblige them.
Get it?
You can use anything from a cardboard shoe box to a wooden sea chest for the box. Try and make it look fairly romantic though. For example, if you are using a shoe box, paint the outside black, tape down the lid and cut a slit in the top to slide the paper into. You might also decide to decorate the outside with sexy images.
Whatever tickles your fancy.
Here are some guidelines to make the most of this game:
1. Push your boundaries
When you drop something in the box, make it something you don’t normally do together. The idea of this game is to explore you and your lover’s sexuality so make it fun, naughty, exciting, or all three.
2. Leave the box somewhere visible
You’ll be more likely to put ideas into it if you walk past it several times a day. Don’t leave it in such an obviously place that anyone visiting your house will enquire about it (unless you want them to!).
3. Write 10 actions to get started
Get the game off to a flying start by writing down 10 suggests and putting them all in the box. Get your lover to do the same. This will mean you won’t know what you’re going to get when you finally do pull one out together.
4. The more suggestions you put in, the more you’ll get out
They say you only get out what you put in, and with a lovers’ fantasy box this is very true. If you put in 10 suggestions every week and your partner only puts in 1, guess whose going to be the lucky on at playtime!
5. Be Open-minded
When playing the game as intended, you may come across a particular fancy that you never knew your partner had. Remain open-minded about it because your lover has been trusting enough to share a personal detail about themselves.
Try not to judge their suggestion. Never dismiss it as stupid or wrong.
If it is not something you are comfortable with, then leave it aside and pull out a new one. You can discuss the issue delicately with your partner after the game has finished. That way the experience won’t be interrupted.
Conclusion
The lover’s fantasy box idea is a great game for increasing intimacy and sharing personal fantasies in a safe and open way with your partner.
Don’t wait. Do something about it today.
When you get home from work, spend 5 minutes finding a suitable container.
I guarantee that small investment on your part will repay you a thousand times over in pleasure and fun.
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