“Keep going. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Just like that. Yeah, YEAH…OHHHH!”

Another quiet night in had turned into sexual frenzy.

But tonight was different. I was in bed with not one, but two objects of desire. One was the beautiful naked form of the girl on my bed, who we’ll call Cara. The other was the thing she was lying on – my Liberator Ramp.

Liberator Wedge/Ramp Comb

The Liberator Ramp (available from LoveHoney UK) is just one of the many shapes in Liberator’s range of sex furniture, designed to increase sexual pleasure by enhancing common sex positions, as well as making new ones possible.

The size and angle of the Ramp, which resembles a giant door stop, makes it much easier for couples to ‘hit the right spot’ during love-making. Unlike a cushion or pillow which are often used to achieve similar results, the Ramp is firm and won’t collapse under your body weight. And it has quickly removable washable cover, so you won’t find yourself in any, um, sticky situations.

The Liberator Ramp was positioned with the thin end towards the headboard. Cara lay on her back on the Ramp with her head at the thin end and bottom resting on the edge of the thick end. In this position her back was supported and by bending her legs at the knees could rest her feet firmly on the bed.

I then knelt between her thighs and lifted her right leg onto my shoulder. This positioned her at the perfect height for entry.

Starting slowly, I eased into her, aware that she would not be used to the deep penetration possible with the Liberator Ramp. I resisted pushing all the way inside her, instead using half my length to turn her on and beg me for more. As she became wetter, I increased the speed of my thrusting. The angle of the Ramp meant pressure was naturally applied to her G-Spot by the head of my penis with every thrust, way more pleasurable for both of us than standard missionary. Cara was also able to play with her clit as the same time, heightening her pleasure and giving her the control she needed to guide her towards orgasm.

From a man’s perspective, looking down at the sight of a gorgeous naked girl playing with herself whilst you buried yourself inside her adds to the excitement. Seeing the look of lust on my face only served to push Cara quickly towards the point of no return as we both lost ourselves in fantasy.

Finally, after several minutes of allowing all those wonderful animalistic urges to be manifested in a gloriously good fucking, Cara and I shuddered in unison and collapsed.

Needless to I love my Liberator Ramp and would highly recommend it to couples who want better, more intimate and more pleasurable love-making (who doesn’t!).

As we basked together in the post-orgasm glow, my mind wandered to all the other positions possible with the Liberator Ramp, playing out future scenes in which tangled naked bodies experienced complete satisfaction.

I look foward to trying out as many of them in real life as possible.

The Liberator Ramp is available LoveHoney in the UK or directly from the Liberator site (US residents).

Buying sex toys with your lover can be super exciting if you make it into an experience for both of you.

If you’re reading this article I would assume that you are over the initial shock of learning that your gal wants to give sex toys a try and understand that a sex toy—even that big 8 inch dildo—is in no way a replacement for you. Choosing a sex toy with your lady should be free of judgment and met with an open mind. Remember; this special shopping excursion is an extension of your sex life and should be treated with the same eagerness, pleasure and excitement as everything else you do sexually.

Selecting a toy that you can both enjoy may take a little compromise, so sit down and talk about what types of toys peak your arousal. Are you looking for something geared towards mutual stimulation like a vibrating cock ring? Or maybe this is more for her and you’d like a vibrator or a dildo that you can use on her or just sit back and enjoy the show while she goes to town? Once you have a general idea, it’s time to shop!

Shopping for a sex toy can be done two ways: online or in store and both have their advantages. Online shopping, allows you to browse products at your leisure and in the privacy of your own home (even naked if you wish!) which is definitely a plus for the shy.

Also, a shop can only hold so much, whereas an online store can carry an endless supply, ensuring something to literally tickle anyone’s fancy. In store, you may luck out and have the pleasure of a very knowledgeable and helpful sales person who can give you the low down on the various gadgets, but again, if either of you is remotely shy, you may not be comfortable asking.

Luckily the product pictures and descriptions available on the Web are so detailed that there’s very little need to leave the house to enjoy a gratifying and successful shopping excursion and besides, sites like Coco de Mer Erotic Boutique, Njoy Toys and Love Honey have customer service people that are reachable by phone or email to answer any questions you may have about sex toys.

Taking a trip to the local sex shop can be great too—almost like foreplay if approached right! There you can peruse the aisles together and enjoy the hands-on approach to choosing a toy. Most stores have a box of batteries in all sizes ready to go so that you can turn the toys on and get a feel for how they work—that in itself can be quite arousing.

There are also various samples that you can enjoy first hand; discreetly rubbing a dollop of warming lotion on her skin (even nipple if no ones looking!) or having her sample some Body Butter off of your neck (I doubt you’ll have the privacy to go much lower!) Also, shopping in store is great if you’re looking for the instant gratification of taking your precious new purchase home to try right away—though—the tease of the wait can be quite worth it as you go to bed dreaming of what’s to come; Ooh! Only three to seven more sleeps till the UPS guy comes!!

So, whether it’s in store or online; either method can prove hot and beneficial if you go in with the right attitude and ready for a good time.

Hey, I just remembered another perk of online shopping as opposed to in store; being able to take advantage of how incredibly aroused browsing all those toys will surely make you and having some hot sex right then and there by the sweet glow of your computer screen at anytime of the day or night.

Talk about happy shopping!

A brief introduction into the world of tantric sex and how it can enhance your love-making.

If you are older than 18 then chances are you have heard about ‘tantric sex’. It seems to come in and out of fashion on a regular basis, and right now it’s doing the rounds! But what exactly IS tantric sex? And why would you want to give tantric sex a go?

Let me explain…

Thank The Buddhist Monks

The word tantric comes who Buddhist teachings known as ‘Tantras’. Tantras are practices that work with the energy of the body and the transference of consciousness for a variety of purposes. Sex is one such area (although I can’t tell you for sure how much sex these Buddhist monks were actually having or if they intended their teachings to be used this way).

Now, I can understand your slight eye rolling at the mention of ‘energy’. There have been endless debates as to whether we do have an ‘energy’ or ‘life force’ that surrounds us or resides inside us. True spiritualists would have us believe that our life force is a powerful entity that can touch the lives or others, be seen by the naked eye and ultimately shapes our destiny. Hardened skeptics would argue that said spiritualists have spent to long in fields sitting around camfires, singing ‘KumBaYah’, and consuming vast quantities of mushrooms.

Me? I’m somewhere on the fence, and I’ll tell you why.

An Exercise You Can Try

Try this example. Close your eyes (after you’ve read this paragraph). Relax yourself and then begin to concentrate on the sensations in your right hand. Think deeply about everything you feel in that hand. Maybe the sensation of it on your lap. Or the warmth of the skin. Or the pulse you can feel in your thumb. You might even begin to feel the tiny individual hairs on the back of your hand. Do this for a minute then come back to me.

Go on, do it now.

Seriously. You won’t understand the point otherwise.

Done it? Good, then let’s continue.

I want you to answer this next question truthfully.

Once you began concentrating on your hand, did you begin to notice the sensations getting stronger and begin feeling things that you would not normally feel unless you had your mind focused on it?

At this point I think you’ll agree the answer is a resounding yes. All we did was focus intently on something and the feelings we experienced were magnified. You might have even had the sensation of feeling a little more connected to your hand, as though it wasn’t just a part of you, but felt truly alive.

So if you can experience that as a beginner in 60 seconds with just your hand, imagine if you did it whilst making love. Do you see where I’m going with this? The results would be insanely intense, not to mention sensationally gratifying.

How To Start Having Tantric Sex

Trust me. Tantric sex is no more complicated that that little exercise we did with your hand. In fact, once you understand the idea you can use it in any area of your life. But that’s another issue. Back to the sex…

Next time you are in the bedroom, try the following and see if you don’t have the most passionate, intense and uplifting love making session ever. All of these tantric sex techniques help you concentrate your mind and keep it focused, which will in turn heighten your senses, just like in the hand exercise.

Slow everything down - Take your time. Make your movements slow and deliberate. Don’t be looking for the next position.

Find a comfortable position - The best tantric sex positions enable you to look your lover in the eyes for that added sense of connectedness. The positions should also be comfortable enough for you both to remain there for as long as you need to. Woman on top and the T-Square position (the woman is on her back with her legs spread wide apart. Her partner lies with his hips under the arch formed by her raised legs) are good ones to try first.

Don’t Rush To Reach Orgasm - You know that old saying “It’s the journey, not the destination”? It’s absolutely true and applies to tantric sex perfectly. Forget about your orgasm that may or may not occur in the future. Instead concentrate on what is happening right now, at that precise moment. Paradoxically doing this will ultimately give you the orgasm you desire without you having to chase it.

Practice Makes Perfect…And Incredible Orgasms

If you practice the exercises above, in a very short space of time you will notice a transformation in the bedroom. It will give you the ability to better control your sexual energy, resulting in longer orgasms, more powerful orgasms, and full body orgasms.

If that doesn’t encourage you to want to learn more then you better call the emergency services – you’re heart obviously stopped beating and you need resuscitation.

Remember to keep everything in perspective. Tantric sex is not something you have to do everytime. I’m not asking you to give up the 1 minute wonder ravaging you so often crave. Just include it as part of your sexual repertoire every once in a while.

You may also want to take a look at The Tantra Chair.

So go out and enjoy the experience of learning and sharing these tantric sex techniques with your lover. I would love to hear your personal experiences, so don’t forget to come back and post them in the comments below!